tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-488757155668840939.post2124125082784545902..comments2023-11-13T15:58:31.220-08:00Comments on HOLLYE DEXTER: The Other ShoeHollye Dexterhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10184998678584429429noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-488757155668840939.post-61734644848457426292011-01-10T06:59:42.678-08:002011-01-10T06:59:42.678-08:00Troy's comment may be the sweetest comeback I&...Troy's comment may be the sweetest comeback I've heard in a long time! And he's right of course.<br /><br />Thing is, we are hardwired to worry, so you are right to work on re-wiring. We can't just unplug, we have to work with what we have I guess. I too do the worry thing. And always chastise myself for it. Anyway, love and courage, my dear!<br /><br />B<br /><a href="http://themiddle-ages.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">The Middle Ages</a>Deb and Barbarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04444390852070865517noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-488757155668840939.post-36130516775532179472011-01-09T11:57:53.590-08:002011-01-09T11:57:53.590-08:00Meditation and inner peace not drugs.
Way to many ...Meditation and inner peace not drugs.<br />Way to many pills floating around these days with consequences unknown to the public via political ties between doctors, insurance companies, medical suppliers and manufacturers. I digress that is another topic,ha.<br /><br />You Hollye are so strong in body and mind and ARE aware which is the key.<br />That when faced with a situation you deal with it and you have the love and support of family and friends. Review your past that you have shared with all of us and you guys are all so great and fine and things always work out.<br /><br />Words and thoughts have strong meanings but the Mind is the most powerful when <br />you are Aware and you my dear are so Aware.<br /><br />Breath In ~ Breath Out with each Life Wave and you will always surface<br />because you are Aware and In Control of your thoughts. xoxo<br />I loved this blog. <br /><br />Bums once told me he married me to calm him from life worries and oh yea love and all that but he is a worry wort!<br /> <br />I once told Amy he sucked all my juices dry and that it was time to lubricate~we both laughed so hard. Love and Peace Within Hollye Great Blog.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-488757155668840939.post-15263377621602980202011-01-08T11:17:09.948-08:002011-01-08T11:17:09.948-08:00MADGE, You are a wonder. Thank you for being such ...MADGE, You are a wonder. Thank you for being such a constant beacon of love and support. and yes, I've had quite a few doctors offer me prescriptions of Prozac, Paxil...you name it. but coming from a family of addicts, I'm a scaredy cat of pills! So therapy, therapy, therapy, meditation, prayer...always trying to heal myself, and YES! I have Troy! He always sets my mind at ease. He is such a calm, good person. My Zen master. : )Hollye Dexterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10184998678584429429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-488757155668840939.post-22605914783890009862011-01-08T10:43:53.566-08:002011-01-08T10:43:53.566-08:00Hollye, Hollye, Hollye. I wish I could reduce your...Hollye, Hollye, Hollye. I wish I could reduce your worry (anxiety) but the only thing that has worked has been medication. I used to be so hopeless that a Spike Lee moved sent me into a panic about the world and why did I have kids when the world was so fucked up. This about 20 years ago. Started Paxil and have never looked back. Had to make a few adjustments over the years from 10mg to 20mg but I can't engender hopelessness which went to anxiety which went to worry. Can't say I still don't worry from time to time but it doesn't ever go as deep and I can quite figuratively imagine a broom and me sweeping away the anxiety. Play a game with yourself. What is the worse that can happen? And then say to yourself I could survive it. The worst will never ever materialize and you will be calm and back to bed. If that doesn't work imagine the ocean and pictures waves crashing on the shore. I hope you feel better. At least you have Troy-I had no one sleeping next to me. Oh and even when I was married and had someone sleeping next to me they didn't express any solace. I love Troy. I love you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com